I hope you are all doing great! Let me tell you that I am on a roll over here. 🙂 I am going through a prosperity course and today I was listening to Carole Doré’s Visualization – The Power of Your Heart! You can find it here. Let me tell you that it is AWESOME!! I was so exited about the visualizations and the techniques she is teaching, they are just great! I will write more about these things but today I want to write about complaints.
She talked about the power we put into things and how it gets reinforced and multiplies every time we say:
Oh my God you don’t know what an idiot my ex is!!
Seriously did you see how that jerk just cut in front of me?!
Oh WHY is this happening to me??!! AGAIN??
Oh my boyfriend is such a dick, let me tell you……….
See where I am going with this? How many times a day do we not complain to our girlfriends, colleagues, family etc? We need to stop it right now because we are only attracting more crap by doing so! And I sure don’t want that anymore so I am releasing it just like I would do with a moldy fruit. It is going out of my mind, out of my life and out of my home. I am totally done with it!
So I have decided to make a challenge for myself and from today do my best to become complaint free and find different ways to deal with it and NOT repeat the bad things that happens to my friends because that is just like reliving it and giving it more energy to make my life miserable. No, no, no not anymore 🙂
So from now on I will only write positive statuses on FB, not say that I am broke, and as soon as I complain I will list 10 things I am grateful about. When people around me complain I will not participate in that conversation and lead it into something else because listening to someone complain is just as contagious as the flu!
I strongly believe that I will see some positive effects of this in my life! I am so excited that I can’t wait, magical things will happen! 🙂
So that is my challenge for the next 21 days since that is what it takes to break a behavior.
So who is with me, raise a hand! 🙂