20 amazing things

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I you wonderful people, I hope you are having an amazing day! So I came across this nice picture and I thought it was an excellent blog post inspiration don’t you agree? I will write down my 20 and I would really like to read your 20.
Lets get busy.

1. A beem me up Scotty machine so I can travel to all my friends quick and easy.

2. My own family.

3. A self cleaning home.

4. A whole new series of wrinkle free clothes.

5. A way to store energy in an effective way.

6. Healthy medicines and cures to diseases.

7. A way to home and feed everyone.

8. My own dog training and coaching company.

9. A way to store happiness and laughter.

10. My dream house.

11. High heels that doesn’t hurt

12. A wonderful garden

13. More paintings.

14. Write those books i have inside of me.

15. I want to create a swinging bed.

16. I want to create a beautiful life for me and my family.

17. I want to create a research center for pain, Alzheimer’s and autism.

18. I want to create a wonderful gathering for my good friends all over the world.

19. I want to create a life for myself in America.

20. I want to create a safe haven for less fortunate children and animals.

How about you?

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20 amazing things

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I you wonderful people, I hope you are having an amazing day! So I came across this nice picture and I thought it was an excellent blog post inspiration don’t you agree? I will write down my 20 and I would really like to read your 20.
Lets get busy.

1. A beem me up Scotty machine so I can travel to all my friends quick and easy.

2. My own family.

3. A self cleaning home.

4. A whole new series of wrinkle free clothes.

5. A way to store energy in an effective way.

6. Healthy medicines and cures to diseases.

7. A way to home and feed everyone.

8. My own dog training and coaching company.

9. A way to store happiness and laughter.

10. My dream house.

11. High heels that doesn’t hurt

12. A wonderful garden

13. More paintings.

14. Write those books i have inside of me.

15. I want to create a swinging bed.

16. I want to create a beautiful life for me and my family.

17. I want to create a research center for pain, Alzheimer’s and autism.

18. I want to create a wonderful gathering for my good friends all over the world.

19. I want to create a life for myself in America.

20. I want to create a safe haven for less fortunate children and animals.

How about you?

I wish you enough

Recently I overheard a father and daughter in their last moments together at the airport. They had announced the departure.
Standing near the security gate, they hugged and the father said, ‘I love you, and I wish you enough.’

They kissed and the daughter left. The father walked over to the window where I was seated. I tried not to intrude on his privacy, but I could not refrain from asking:
‘When you were saying good-bye, I heard you say, ‘I wish you enough.’ May I ask what that means?’

He began to smile. ‘That’s a wish that has been handed down from other generations. My parents used to say it to everyone.’
He paused a moment and looked up as if trying to remember it in detail, and he smiled even more.
‘When we said, ‘I wish you enough,’ we were wanting the other person to have a life filled with just enough good things to sustain them.’
Then turning toward me, he shared the following as if he were reciting it from memory.

I wish you enough sun to keep your attitude bright no matter how gray the day may appear.

I wish you enough rain to appreciate the sun even more..

I wish you enough happiness to keep your spirit alive and everlasting.

I wish you enough pain so that even the smallest of joys in life may appear bigger.

I wish you enough gain to satisfy your wanting…
I wish you enough loss to appreciate all that you possess.

I wish you enough hellos to get you through the final good- bye.

~Source unknown

It is not a Find 5 faults with this person game

Hello you awesome people out there!
This is just a short post (Ah well the intention is to make it short but we all know how it normally goes don’t we?) about something really important. Consider it one of the best life hacks EVER! Are you ready for it?

Ok then here it is.. 
Instead of finding and listing everything wrong with your partner, friend, relative then list some of the nice things about him/her! 

Tada! Isn’t it great?  Ok I will explain why you should do this. 

1) You get more of what you focus on, so if you have a shitty boyfriend/colleague/family etc then you will get more of shitty boyfriend/colleague/family if you are focusing on all the negative. But if you focus on the positive you will get more positive.

2) It will make you feel better. Being focused on negative things will only make you more negative and bring even more negative things into your life. Do you see a pattern here?

3) It will be a make over for your relationship. It is like breathing new air into it. 

4) Because I say so? 😉 lol

5) Because you will be a good person and good persons ends up on Santas list! 

(My excuse is that this post is being written in the middle of the night and I have some weird sense of humor at this time of night. 🙂

Yesterday I was angry with a person, I’ve had it and I wanted to write all the things he did wrong. So I opened the note app in my phone and I started to write but it didn’t feel good. What was I doing? I like this person and I want him in my life so why would I list all the bad things? It only leads to more conflict and nothing positive comes out of it. So I started to write one positive thing and then another and then it just continued and let me tell you it felt great in the end. My mood shifted completely and it was some kind of positive writing. I didnt send it, I just read it, smiled and felt the love inside of me. 

Guess what? A few hours later I talked with the person and his energy had shifted totally! We had a lovely conversation, sorted everything out and we were good. Coinsidence? I think not my dear Watson! 

So next time you are angry at your boss, your partner your kids etc you might wanna try this before you send off a hate mail. 
Lets put an end to this “Find 5 faults with this person game” that we normally play, shall we? 

Spread the love and pink glitter and stay safe!

Zoom zoom
Tinha

I’m so sweet that even the bees wants me.

Sorry guys this post is directed to my female followers. I guess the advice can work both ways if you want to read it. 🙂

The title of today’s post was suggested by my lovely tribe sister Marina, when I got stung by a bee this week. She is one of my dearest friends. Every day we connect and she inspires me to do great and positive things. She has taught me loads during the years. She is really my co- creator and inspiration. And this morning we were talking as usual and I got inspired to write this. So this post is a tribute to Marina, you are fabulous!

Ok back to business..
As some of you know I have been single for centuries.. Not really but it sure feels like it. Lol
I am that kind of woman who can manifest any guy I want. I just look at him and thinks “I want him”and voilà I get him. Don’t ask me how, I just do it. It works on all men from rock stars to the boy next door. But the length of the relationships has been quite short or not a good healthy relationship so I felt that I need to try something different. I am ready for a quality relationship.

So this is what I am doing and it seems to work pretty well.  I feel that I am getting closer.

1. I followed Martha Becks advice of writing a list with 100 qualities I want my love to have. Yeah, yeah I know it is a lot but don’t diss the list dude! I got a ton of messages on OKC after I did it. Try it!

2. I started to feel like I am in a relationship. He is just not with me right now, he is out of town. That trick helped me let go of the neediness I felt.

3. I decided to give all guys a chance. If the thought of being intimate with this guy doesn’t make you want to puke then date him!!  Unless he is a drug user, violent, mental issues or other severe issues. Because then I will scream: Run Forest ruuuun!!! 🙂

4. We are not perfect so we shouldn’t expect them to be either. And ladies it isn’t his wallet or career you are going to bed with or will raise a family together with. So less focus on the materialistic things and more focus on his personality, morals and other qualities because that’s what you will be living with. Don’t lower your standards just exchange them for better ones. A good man can go as far as he wants as long as he is motivated and feels the support of a good and loving woman behind him. (There was a lot if “as” in that sentence lol)

5. Feel it! Love him! Appreciate him! I know, I know.. How can you love someone who you doesn’t even know?  I came up with this since I have problems with visualization since I am more of a emotional personality. So every day I am feeling grateful to have this good man in my life. I feel loved and appreciated. When I put on my underwear in the morning I think about how he will enjoy watching them on me etc. When I feel the scent from a nice perfume I think about him and how it feels to hug him and smell this scent on him etc. I think you get the idea.  We are all different so maybe you can see it in front of you and that is great. There are no wrong and
right here.

6. Love yourself and the right person will love you too.  Be the best you that you can possibly be. The goal is to be so awesome that you would date yourself if you could! I love me, I am absolutely awesome!

7. If you are over 40 and doesn’t have kids but wants them then don’t panic. I really, really, really wants to have a family but if my time runs out then there is always adoption and foster parenting as a last option. Go and freeze some eggs or something but don’t stress about it. Come up with solutions instead.  I even have a donor lined up in case I feel that I want to create a small family on my own. That took a lot of stress and pressure of me I can tell you that.

8. He is coming! I am convinced that every day he is getting one day closer to me. He might be walking here from Africa though lol. Just believe in it!

9. Smile honey! Do fun things and enjoy yourself. Go out with your friends and live your life. Flirt and enjoy yourself. Being happy and smiling is so sexy! Forget about if you are too thin or have some extra fluff? So what? Charm always win anyway.

10. Don’t take things so seriously. Just enjoy the ride and see where it takes you. Maybe you will be with your guy for a week or for the rest of you life. Who knows? Just focus on making that time as amazing as possible. Remember you are in the same team. Do you want to be right or do you want to be happy? Hakuna matata.

This post took a different turn than I intended too but it is ok. I hope you will find something of it useful.

Now will this wonderful woman go down to the garden cafeteria because the staff room turned into a hen house and i cant hear myself think. Man can Russian women speak nonstop or what? Lol
I will leave you with a great quote from Arnold..

I’ll be back! 🙂

How would you feel?

Just an über quick post..
I want to you think about this, if your highest wish was granted how would you feel? Maybe you dream about meeting the love of your life, winning money, get that dream job, buying a new car, having a baby, travelling etc..

If you could do/have that how would you feel?
Try to feel it inside of you and smile.. If you do this for as little as  17 seconds I promise you that you will at least 17 seconds closer to your goal. What we feel we manifest. So focus on the feeling my friends. You have nothing to lose and everything to win.

Zoom zoom 🙂

F.L.Y Baby, F.L.Y!

ImageHello you wonderful people! I had a pretty good day today with some small surprises.. 
Instead of Tissot repairing my watch I got a brand new one! And the cable to my TENS machine finally arrived to the store and the guy gave it to me for free.. Gotta love those moments!! 🙂
A few not so nice things happened as well but lets not get into all of that except for one thing that is actually the cause for todays blog post.

People who craves confirmation all the time and put on their victim cardigan.. Drama queens and kings. Can’t stand them what so ever.  I mean I can be angry and complain but I hate being in that mode and I try to snap out of it ASAP!  Who wants to be in Nega-land? Not me! But there are people who really suck every negative emotion they can find, they live and thrive on it and they complain about themselves and their bodys etc so they will get confirmation from us. Don’t play that game because it will drain you. Hand them a life vest but don’t hang around because they will drag you down with them. No matter what you say they will think that you are out to get them. You will end up censoring your words and thoughts and that is no way of living. Do yourself a favor and get out, NOW. 

Ok I know it sounds hard but you can not help someone else to love themselves, you can not be their postivity tow truck! Sure once in a while we all need encouragement but if it is several times a week and for the same stuff then you can rest assure that there are some red warning lights blinking wild right now. You can give them the tools to self help or the number to a good psychiatrist who is an expert in dealing with these things. You can be their friends but when they start don’t play along with the game. Ypu have my permission to give them a bit of tough love, that is the only thing that will help both them and you. You can read a few books about energy vampires, there are some really good and practical tips in those books in how to deal with people like this. 

I used to feel sorry for myself, I used to blame people for the situations I was in. That was until I became an full blown egoist. Yes I am an egoist, I love me. I am the most important person in my world. I F.L.Y wich means First Love Yourself.
I am not perfect, I am not even close to being slim and I have not yet made a fortune or made myself a good carreer. Heck, I don’t even have a partner or kids.  But I have ME and I am pretty aweseome!! Who would manage to deal with pain 24/7, work 10 hours per day (in a place that could be a mental asylym) and still smile and try to educate herself and who moved to a totally different country to try to improve her health and is ready to do it again? And that is just the top of the iceberg. Let me put it this way, I rock! 

I love my body even though it is not perfect, but it shows up everyday and gives me it’s best and it takes me wherever I need to go. Isn’t that awesome!? I love this body who has been abused, beaten, cursed at, mistreated, cut in etc. It is just wonderful and I am so greatful for it! And my brain is absolutely amazing when it comes to thinking fast and dealing with all the things I have been through. Wow!!  I have a fantastic heart that has been torn to pieces more than I can count and it is still filled with love especially for kids and animals. I make both myself and my friends laugh and I try to look at things from the bright side and be positive. I am a beliver and doer, so what is there not to love?? I love ME!

The thing is that all of this applies to all of you as well, because we are all awesome in our unique kind of way. Never forget that!

Even though I am postive and loving I am not Mother Theresa. I started talking with this guy online who seemed like a guy who had his act together and was self confident. I was wrong.. He ended up complaining to me after a conflict with his abusive boss.. Who accused him to be a drama queen. I tried to encourage him and give some pretty neutral support.. But the it was his body issues, he was fat, ugly, no one likes him and he met all the wrong people bla bla bla and it didnt matter how many times I told him I liked him exactly like he was he always said: Yeah? I soon realized that he was hypersensitive and when he wanted me to train to be sexy, I told him my point of view in a calm way, he then got very upset and put on the ugly victim cardigan. He thought and felt like I attacked him when he was being kind and supportive. His feeling is really true for him but he is so absorbed by that so he doesnt realize that he totally misunderstood the whole thing and then he spends the time being grumpy about that instead of enjoying the positive emotions from me. This guy doesn’t love himself and sorry to say, I will not either because of his lack of self love. It is not sexy at all. 
He is hooked on that feeling of being a victim, it is his reward. Yes I did use my dogtraining skills to determine the problem, don’t diss it because it is so accurate that it is scary. I can break his behavior and retrain him but the question is, do I want to? I doubt it, I dont want to chage anyone. There are more men in the world so he has to be pretty special to keep my attention.. 

Maybe you are one of those people who has one of those ugly victim cardigans in your closet. If so, throw it out! Just do it! I promise you will feel better. Do you want to live your life like this, feeling unfairly treated and stay a victim blaming everyone or do you want to feel good? The choice is totally yours sweetie. So what if you have fat thighs or a beer tummy or you has a shitty boss? So what? Are you gonna let that hold you back for the rest of your life. Your mama didn’t give birth to you so you could be victim for the rest of your life. And the best part is that it is never too late to change your future. If you need help, join a forum, contact a psychiastrist, a life coach, read self improvment books. Louise Hay has written a few really good ones. Do something!

Let the rest of the world love you by loving yourself first!
Come on, here take this beautiful wing suit and F.L.Y Baby F.L.Y!! You are awesome and you can do it! 

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