It is not a Find 5 faults with this person game

Hello you awesome people out there!
This is just a short post (Ah well the intention is to make it short but we all know how it normally goes don’t we?) about something really important. Consider it one of the best life hacks EVER! Are you ready for it?

Ok then here it is.. 
Instead of finding and listing everything wrong with your partner, friend, relative then list some of the nice things about him/her! 

Tada! Isn’t it great?  Ok I will explain why you should do this. 

1) You get more of what you focus on, so if you have a shitty boyfriend/colleague/family etc then you will get more of shitty boyfriend/colleague/family if you are focusing on all the negative. But if you focus on the positive you will get more positive.

2) It will make you feel better. Being focused on negative things will only make you more negative and bring even more negative things into your life. Do you see a pattern here?

3) It will be a make over for your relationship. It is like breathing new air into it. 

4) Because I say so? 😉 lol

5) Because you will be a good person and good persons ends up on Santas list! 

(My excuse is that this post is being written in the middle of the night and I have some weird sense of humor at this time of night. 🙂

Yesterday I was angry with a person, I’ve had it and I wanted to write all the things he did wrong. So I opened the note app in my phone and I started to write but it didn’t feel good. What was I doing? I like this person and I want him in my life so why would I list all the bad things? It only leads to more conflict and nothing positive comes out of it. So I started to write one positive thing and then another and then it just continued and let me tell you it felt great in the end. My mood shifted completely and it was some kind of positive writing. I didnt send it, I just read it, smiled and felt the love inside of me. 

Guess what? A few hours later I talked with the person and his energy had shifted totally! We had a lovely conversation, sorted everything out and we were good. Coinsidence? I think not my dear Watson! 

So next time you are angry at your boss, your partner your kids etc you might wanna try this before you send off a hate mail. 
Lets put an end to this “Find 5 faults with this person game” that we normally play, shall we? 

Spread the love and pink glitter and stay safe!

Zoom zoom
Tinha

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February is here and it is time for another challenge!

images (1)Hi guys,

I hope you are all doing great! Let me tell you that I am on a roll over here. 🙂 I am going through a prosperity course and today I was listening to Carole Doré’s Visualization – The Power of Your Heart! You can find it here. Let me tell you that it is AWESOME!! I was so exited about the visualizations and the techniques she is teaching, they are just great! I will write more about these things but today I want to write about complaints.

She talked about the power we put into things and how it gets reinforced and multiplies every time we say:
Oh my God you don’t know what an idiot my ex is!!
Seriously did you see how that jerk just cut in front of me?!
Oh WHY is this happening to me??!! AGAIN??
Oh my boyfriend is such a dick, let me tell you……….

See where I am going with this? How many times a day do we not complain to our girlfriends, colleagues, family etc? We need to stop it right now because we are only attracting more crap by doing so! And I sure don’t want that anymore so I am releasing it just like I would do with a moldy fruit. It is going out of my mind, out of my life and out of my home. I am totally done with it!

So I have decided to make a challenge for myself and from today do my best to become complaint free and find different ways to deal with it and NOT repeat the bad things that happens to my friends because that is just like reliving it and giving it more energy to make my life miserable. No, no, no not anymore 🙂

So from now on I will only write positive statuses on FB, not say that I am broke, and as soon as I complain I will list 10 things I am grateful about. When people around me complain I will not participate in that conversation and lead it into something else because listening to someone complain is just as contagious as the flu!

I strongly believe that I will see some positive effects of this in my life!  I am so excited that I can’t wait, magical things will happen! 🙂

So that is my challenge for the next 21 days since that is what it takes to break a behavior.
So who is with me, raise a hand! 🙂

PS I finished my vision board and I am so pleased with it! 1544374_10151928921129562_192733962_n